Developing Trust With Nanny And Putting Your Mind At Ease


-- Have an on-boarding period. Have the nanny start a week before you actually need her.

-- Have a one week trial period. This is very important because a week trial is a good time period to see how the nanny is in front of you, FilipinosofNY gives you two months to both a chance to settle into a routine and for some of the honeymoon phase to rub off.

-- Have a "family day" journal the nanny fills out. This is a log of what happened during the day, such as feeding (and times), sleep log, diaper changes, where you've been, etc.

-- Have frequent reviews. A review after the one month trial period and quarterly reviews after that will help you continually modify the working relationship.

-- Ask around for feedback from others. Check with the instructors of classes that your child attends. Inquire with your neighbors if they hear the baby crying a lot more when you're gone. Have a housekeeper you trust spend some time "observing." Set up playdates with friends you trust that are stay at home moms and get feedback. However, never ask other nannies to spy on your nanny (it’s a quick way for you or your nanny to get ousted by the community).

-- Be able to reach your nanny at all times. Upgrade her calling/text plan if need be; being able to reach your nanny will give you a peace of mind. Ask your nanny to send photos if that helps. You may want to help her set up an alarm on her phone to remind her to check in.

-- Do your own spot checks. Come home early and unexpectedly several times in the first few weeks/months (and continue throughout the nanny’s tenure). This will give you a good sense of what's going on when no one is supposed to be watching.

-- Set up an Emergency Plan. If something happens to you or your nanny, what contingencies are there to help you get in touch? Do you have emergency contact information for the nanny’s family? Your nanny should at all times carry a copy of your child’s health insurance card and contact numbers for you and place the list of emergency contact numbers here in New York City.

EMERGENCY CONTACT NUMBERS:

Emergency: 911 (Police/Fire/Ambulance)

Non-emergency: 311

Information Assistance: 411

FEMA: 888-379-9531

American Red Cross: 1-877-RED-CROSS

Police Headquarter: 212-374-5000

NYPD Tip Line: 1-888-692-7233

FBI: 212-384-1000

Terrorism Hotline: 1-888-NYC-SAFE

Crime Victims Line: 800-771-7755

Crime Stopper: 1-800-577-TIPS

Suicide Prevention: 212-673-3000

Abortion Prevention: 212-2451845

Legal Aid Society Hotline: 212-577-3300

Poison Control Center: 212-764-7667

Doctors On-call: 212-737-2333

Hospital Patient Location Info: 718-416-7000

Help Hotline:

Rape Hotline: 212-267-RAPE

Narcotics Anonymous: 212-929-7117

Alcoholics Anonymous: 212-647-1680

Violence Hotline: 1-800-621-HOPE

Crisis Intervention Hotline: 212-219-5599

Child Abuse & Maltreatment Hotline: 1-800-342-3720

Emergency Children's Services: 212-966-8000

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children: 1-800-843-5678

Runaway Hotline: 212-966-8000

LIFENET Mental: 1-800-LIFENET

Senior Action Line: 212-788-7504

Con-Edison: 1-800-75-CON ED

National Grid: 718-643-4050

Time Warner Cable: 212-674-9100

Gas/Electric Service Shutoff Hotline: 1-800-342-3355

MTA/Subway: 718-330-3322

Port Authority Bus: 212-564-8484

Port Authority Airports:

JFK: 718-244-4444

La Guardia: 718-533-3400

Newark: 973-961-6000

Amtrak (Penn Station): 1-800-872-7245

LIRR (Penn Station): 718-217-5477

Metro-North (Grand Central): 212-532-4900

NY Waterway: 1-800-53-FERRY

Staten Island Ferry: 212--NEW-YORK

Taxi/Limo Commission: 311 or 212-NYC-TAXI

US Postal Service: 1-800-275-8777

Manhattan Animal Shelter & Control: 212-722-3620

NY Consulate General of the Philippines: 212-764-1330

Filipinos Of NY Hotline: 1-877-844-4180

“You don't really know what is happening when you are not there, so it is a good idea to try and find out. Work from home sometimes. Ask friends to keep an eye out in the park or on play dates. Listen to what your children say. Mine told me they didn't like a couple of nannies we have had and really predicted the problems that arose. Kids have a hard time articulating what they don't like but they know when they like someone. It's very tricky to know what is going on when you are not there.” .

SAFETY IN YOUR HOME

It’s also important to be smart and safe in your home. While you may trust your nanny, you may not always know who comes to drop off or pick up your kids from a play date. Here are some reminders:

-- Hide valuables. Keep valuables out of sight and keep things in places that don’t invite temptation.

-- Mark your valuables (use a police engraver when possible). The NYPD has an Operation ID program where they will lend you their engraver.

-- Conceal prescriptions. If you have medications that are re-sellable, consider buying a small box with a lock to store prescription medications. At the very least keep them out of sight.

-- Limit key access. Keep access to your apartment limited and inventory your keys. (Some nannies actually don’t want to keep a key to their employer’s apartment so they won’t be suspect if something happens.)

-- Have a policy about guests/playdates in your home with your nanny. Know who is coming and going in your house.

-- Have emergency contact numbers. Ask for an emergency number for your nanny. It could save their life or could help you track down a problem person.

-- Do random spot checks. Come home (or to a class, or the park) at times the nanny is not expecting it.

-- Talk to your local NYPD Precinct Community Affairs Officer. They can help guide you through your options if you run into issues related to criminal activity.

-- Check out the stories. If you suspect that the nanny is pocketing money you’ve given for a class, stop by the business and check it out.

-- FINALLY--- Don’t shrug off that uneasy feeling. Trust your instincts if you feel something isn’t quite right. Investigate until you are satisfied. Even people we trust can turn out to be deceiving us.

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Filipinos Of NY is a community initiative project based in FilipinoTown in Queens New York USA.  Immerse yourself into Filipino culture, language,, hospitality and food. Having fun embracing countrymen residing in the East Coast. Filipinos are fun loving people who are well known for being warmth, friendly, caring, hardworking, great cooks, generous and thankful hearts. Here you can find fellow New Yorkers, apartment/room rentals, events, places to hangout, cooking recipes, tips living in NY, Philippine travel tips/discounts, shopping, jobs, freebies and many more.

We also place skilled, honest and dedicated helpers in homes where they are valued and can make a difference. We go above and beyond to do it. Our affiliate agency is based in Queens right at the heart of Filipino Town in New York. Our deep knowledge of the NYC and Hamptons lifestyle has made us the go-to resource for families looking for help that just "gets it." 

Office address: 73-16 Roosevelt Ave cor Broadway Fl 2 Jackson Heights, NY 11372

Hours: Monday to Friday 9am to 6pm EST

            Saturday: 10am to 3pm EST

            Sunday: Closed

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